{"id":2292,"date":"2024-06-21T03:20:21","date_gmt":"2024-06-21T03:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chuyende.sdb.vn\/?p=2292"},"modified":"2024-06-21T03:20:24","modified_gmt":"2024-06-21T03:20:24","slug":"khi-cha-me-tha-thu-nen-mong-cua-bau-khi-gia-dinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chuyende.sdb.vn\/index.php\/2024\/06\/21\/khi-cha-me-tha-thu-nen-mong-cua-bau-khi-gia-dinh\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi Cha M\u1eb9 Tha Th\u1ee9 – N\u1ec1n M\u00f3ng C\u1ee7a B\u1ea7u Kh\u00ed Gia \u0110\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ban Truy\u1ec1n Th\u00f4ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Trong cu\u1ed1n \u201cNh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 Sa-l\u00ea-di\u00eang\u201d, Don Bosco vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cC\u00e1c con bi\u1ebft trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n nh\u1ecf nhoi th\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00e2y ra bi\u1ebft bao h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng… C\u00e1ch chung, h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi t\u00ean g\u1ecdi D\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng, h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u00e1c em sao cho c\u00e1c em th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o. V\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3, Cha mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang con r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n v\u00e0 duy ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c b\u00e1c \u00e1i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 qua g\u1ea7n hai tr\u0103m n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y nay, n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng n\u00e0y v\u1eabn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. Trong ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng, bi\u1ebft bao l\u1ea7n c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t trong hai h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c: d\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng hay c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta th\u1eed h\u00ecnh dung khung c\u1ea3nh x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i, trong b\u1eefa \u0103n chi\u1ec1u. Anna, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 4 tu\u1ed5i ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc gh\u1ebf d\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng \u0103n c\u00e1ch ngoan ngo\u00e3n, m\u00e0 th\u00f2 tay v\u00e0o ch\u00e9n b\u1ed1c l\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n l\u00ean, ch\u1eb3ng may, m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 rau x\u00e0 l\u00e1ch r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00e0n. M\u1eb9 nh\u00ecn b\u00e9 v\u00e0 ra l\u1ec7nh c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: \u201cAnna, nh\u1eb7t rau l\u00ean con!\u201d. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, n\u00f3 ph\u00f9ng mang tr\u1ee3n m\u1eaft n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng!\u201d, r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eady. \u201cTh\u01b0a qu\u00fd c\u00f4, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1edbt \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea9n h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f4 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eb7t l\u00ean cho t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn. Anna nh\u00ecn m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn ng\u1ea1o m\u1ea1n c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean b\u1ed1n v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cKh\u00f4ng!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 thua cu\u1ed9c v\u00ec quy\u1ec1n t\u1ed1i cao trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7. Gi\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi (c\u00f3 khi b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n ra tr\u00f2)<\/em> th\u00ec b\u00e0 v\u1eabn s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 nh\u1ee5c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1edfi b\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eb3ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, khi l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng: \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd em b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp con r\u1ed3i \u00e0? Em d\u1ea1y con hay \u0111\u1ea5y nh\u1ec9!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng, c\u00fai xu\u1ed1ng nh\u1eb7t l\u00e1 rau l\u00ean v\u00e0 lau s\u1ea1ch b\u00e0n \u0103n d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1nh m\u1eaft \u0111\u1eafc th\u1eafng v\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i nh\u1ecf, th\u00ec b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 l\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed5 d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda khi n\u00f3i: \u201cCon n\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 4 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 sai khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c em \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ngay c\u1ea3 trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed9c ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u0103n b\u1ea3n trong H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng D\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cTrong m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9\u201d<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 th\u1eadt v\u00f4 \u00edch khi \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hay thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ec7nh bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 Anna \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn nguy hi\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 \u201cAi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra l\u1ec7nh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d. M\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3. M\u1ed9t khi cha m\u1eb9 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u1eeb h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn h\u01a1n th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 t\u1eadn th\u00e2m s\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 sau: \u201c\u1ed2, n\u1ebfu ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn con, th\u00ec con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y v\u1edbi ba m\u1eb9!\u201d. V\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n gi\u1eefa tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u0169a v\u00e0 b\u00e1o th\u00f9 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng may, c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. C\u00e1c em c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00fai b\u1ea9y, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n ch\u00ed h\u01a1n cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho cha m\u1eb9 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ee9t tr\u00e1n v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng k\u00eau tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1eefa!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a Don Bosco r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t hay \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n \u201cph\u1ea3i v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi ta, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng…\u201d c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c l\u1eabn nhau. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u1ed1t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c h\u1ea1 s\u0129, hay trung s\u0129. M\u1ed9t l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o gi\u1ecfi s\u1ebd truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00e1c thu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thi h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh: \u0110\u00e2y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u1ea5y n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng. Ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb l\u0103ng nh\u1ee5c s\u00e2u xa khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp ch\u00fang v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao khi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 Anna c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n khi b\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00fat lui ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t, v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t sinh \u00fd th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u01a1i b\u00e9. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n: \u201c\u00d4i, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n qu\u00e1! Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ea3 con g\u00e1i?\u201d. S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ngay r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c lau s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd ch\u1ed7 d\u01a1 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ebfn, b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e0m v\u00e0 vui s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0i ho\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 m\u00e0 Gianni Rodari trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n mang t\u00ean \u201cAi ra l\u1ec7nh?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00f4i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n