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T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Di\u1ec5m Ca, FMA<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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N\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam, ti\u1ebfng chu\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i vang l\u00ean. T\u00f4i b\u1eaft m\u00e1y trong c\u01a1n ng\u00e1i ng\u1ee7:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Ch\u1ecb… Em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i! \u2013 Ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a em g\u00e1i t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i t\u1ec9nh h\u1eb3n: \u201cChuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra th\u1ebf?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

– Em ch\u00e1n. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y em chia tay. Em \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau m\u1ea5y l\u1eddi \u1ea5y, em \u00f2a kh\u00f3c. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn hay khuy\u00ean em \u201cd\u0129 h\u00f2a vi qu\u00fd\u201d, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean c\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng xoa d\u1ecbu qua qu\u00fdt ch\u1eb3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a em<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cv\u1ee1 m\u1ed9ng\u201d. T\u00f4i cho l\u00e0 th\u1ebf. Theo l\u1eddi em k\u1ec3, ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a em tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi c\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nhau. Bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh l\u1ea7m l\u1ef3 c\u1ee7a anh ta, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh qu\u1ea3ng giao c\u1ee7a em g\u00e1i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi th\u0103m v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc em v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y. Em r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: \u201cEm s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho anh \u1ea5y thay \u0111\u1ed5i, v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t y\u00eau em. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n em mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 anh chi\u1ec1u h\u1ebft!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00e0y b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean xe hoa, em c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i r\u00f3i, b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u1ea9ng cao h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u00ecn d\u00e1ng \u0111i\u1ec7u m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a em, t\u00f4i xem ch\u1eebng m\u1ed1i lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea3o. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 \u00edt th\u1eddi gian sau c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng \u1ea5y, em hay li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00fac: \u201cEm v\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p nhau ch\u1ecb \u1ea1! H\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p nhau, anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi em nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o, lu\u00f4n h\u1ecfi \u00fd em trong m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1. C\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i 1800 <\/sup>lu\u00f4n. L\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng im \u1ec9m nh\u01b0 b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1ea5y. Ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1: Anh ta th\u00edch c\u1eafm l\u1ec1u \u1edf qu\u00ea n\u1ed9i mi\u1ec1n T\u00e2y, an ph\u1eadn v\u1edbi heo g\u00e0, c\u00e1 c\u1ea3nh. C\u00f2n em g\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 d\u00e2n kinh t\u1ebf th\u00ec lu\u00f4n m\u00ea m\u1ea9n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c bu\u00f4n b\u00e1n l\u00e0m \u0103n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed1n S\u00e0i th\u00e0nh, hai t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i l\u1ea1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a em bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe c\u00e2u: \u201cCh\u00fang em kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p nhau!\u201d, hay \u201cAnh \u1ea5y kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u00e1!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i \u201ckh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p\u201d, c\u00e1i \u201ckh\u00e1c\u201d n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n s\u1edbm? C\u1ea3 hai anh ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nhau sao? H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cthay \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d nh\u1edd t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t? \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh hay l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u201cy\u00eau cu\u1ed3ng s\u1ed1ng v\u1ed9i\u201d, hay 1001 l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n: \u201cC\u00f3 khi n\u00e0o do ai \u0111\u00f3 trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129: C\u01b0\u1edbi nhau r\u1ed3i, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u00e0u l\u00e0m m\u00e8 g\u00ec n\u1eefa. Lo m\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4i. Lo s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00f4i!\u201d. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tan v\u1ee1?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1ec1 em v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo t\u00f4i, vi\u1ec7c qu\u00ean ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u1ea5m cho m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ngu\u1ed9i l\u1ea1nh d\u1ea7n v\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 sau ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u0103m chung s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u201cbi\u1ebft\u201d nhau r\u1ed3i, ho\u1eb7c do ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng c\u01a1 nghi\u1ec7p, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho nhau \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 xa x\u1ec9. M\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i t\u00e2m s\u1ef1: \u201cAnh \u1ea5y \u0111i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00fac 11g \u0111\u00eam. C\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p con g\u00e1i (4 tu\u1ed5i) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. Em n\u00f3i v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 con em c\u1ea7n anh \u1ea5y, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1n. B\u00e9 Va-Ni r\u1ea5t nh\u1edb v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba b\u1ed3ng \u1eb5m. Anh tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: Em \u0111\u1eebng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 anh th\u01b0\u01a1ng em. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i!\u201d<\/em> M\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c chia s\u1ebb: \u201cKhi ch\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y anh nh\u1eafn tin cho em \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 50 tin v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o v\u00e0 m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i. C\u00f2n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, anh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n bu\u1ed3n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n hay t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 g\u00ec v\u1edbi em. D\u1ecbp Gi\u00e1ng sinh, em r\u1ee7 anh \u0111i si\u00eau th\u1ecb v\u00e0 mua t\u1eb7ng anh m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o. Anh c\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u00e1nh, c\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng n\u00f3i c\u00e1m \u01a1n em m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng. Anh c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ecfi em m\u00f9a Gi\u00e1ng Sinh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec. Thi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ch\u00e1n!\u201d. <\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u, khi m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng nhau, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 \u201c\u0111ong \u0111\u1ea7y\u201d b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u mang m\u1ea7u h\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u01a1 khi m\u1eaft v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1edf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u00e9t ti\u1ebfng \u201cAnh y\u00eau em\u201d v\u1edbi h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ec1 th\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea7n ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n v\u00e0 dai d\u1eb3ng\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quan ni\u1ec7m “c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi\u201d l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vun \u0111\u1eafp v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y th\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng niu h\u01a1n th\u1ebf. Giao ti\u1ebfp th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n. Vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ecfng l\u1ebbo, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m l\u1eabn cho nhau. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u201ck\u1ebft n\u1ed1i\u201d. Gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u201cl\u00e0n s\u00f3ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i hai tr\u00e1i tim c\u00e1ch li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ec3 trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a nhau v\u00e0 ra t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac. D\u1eabu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, xung \u0111\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd gi\u00fap hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1edbm t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ch\u00f2a b\u00ecnh\u201d trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, h\u1ecd cam k\u1ebft c\u00f9ng nhau ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00e1m g\u00e1nh l\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ri\u00eang, mang n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen, l\u1ed1i suy t\u01b0 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. Do v\u1eady, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u01a1i t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda kia kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau th\u00edch \u1ee9ng: Ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eddi gian s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i \u201cch\u00fang ta\u201d. B\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i, c\u1ea3 hai c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u1ea7u nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng, s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i, bi\u1ebft c\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, bi\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m chung, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, bi\u1ebft s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh Vi\u1ec7t Nam, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u00edt khi di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i qua nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, n\u00f3i l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm… th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c vun v\u00e9n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u1eadp t\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong t\u00f4ng hu\u1ea5n \u201cNi\u1ec1m hoan l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d, \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Cha Phan-xi-c\u00f4 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cGia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i v\u1ecb… B\u00ed t\u00edch h\u00f4n ph\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giao \u01b0\u1edbc x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t nghi l\u1ec5 r\u1ed7ng tu\u1ebfch hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cam k\u1ebft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u00ed t\u00edch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u01a1n th\u00e1nh h\u00f3a v\u00e0 c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ed9.\u201d(s\u1ed1 71.72).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m hay<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e1 th\u01b0 c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o Brandy Young ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9, g\u1eedi cho c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh nh\u00e2n d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m h\u1ecdc m\u1edbi 2016 c\u00f3 t\u00ean: Quy \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0\u201d,<\/em> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u0103ng l\u00ean trang c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 sau ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 40.000 l\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 h\u00e2m m\u1ed9. N\u1ed9i dung nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cQu\u00fd Ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8, t\u00f4i d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb. B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh trong th\u1eddi gian \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c trong n\u0103m nay.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em h\u1ecdc sinh, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i xin ph\u00e9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb qu\u00fd ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng \u0103n t\u1ed1i, c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nhau ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 cho con b\u1ea1n \u0111i ng\u1ee7 s\u1edbm.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m \u01a1n,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brandy Young.\u201d<\/em> L\u00e1 th\u01b0 ng\u1eafn c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ea1ng b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ng\u00e0y nay, nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfm m\u1ea5t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ea5t b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m, n\u01a1i an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh qu\u00ed gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0ng mong manh, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu t\u1eebng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u00f9ng d\u1ef1ng x\u00e2y. C\u1ea7u ch\u00fac m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng, n\u01a1i \u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Di\u1ec5m Ca, FMA N\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam, ti\u1ebfng chu\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i vang l\u00ean. T\u00f4i b\u1eaft m\u00e1y trong c\u01a1n ng\u00e1i ng\u1ee7: – Ch\u1ecb… Em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i! \u2013 Ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a em g\u00e1i t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i t\u1ec9nh h\u1eb3n: \u201cChuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra th\u1ebf?\u201d. – Em ch\u00e1n. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y em chia tay. 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